Behind. Look, just remember going into this: If we go home with you from the bar, it' s because we want. You dont have to do all the dirty work of explaining to him that making love to a woman is different from when he makes love to his hand. Don't Fake It (Emotion, That Is) You feel bad. Maybe you saw Knocked Up? (It' s called a walk of shame for a reason.) Yet there are ways to nobly pull off this ignoble act. Chose differently for one night stands or long term relationships. If you sleep with him upon meeting him, there s a good chance that he wont feel the need to call you again, and there s an even greater chance that youll develop feelings for him. Commence passionate no-commitment sexytimes.